Anyone else highly emotional about introducing new baby to toddler

I did have a tough time with guilt when I brought home DS2. ?I felt horrible especially cause DS1 was only 15 months old.

It was hard for me to totally bond with DS2 right away even though I nursed him because I felt guilty holding him in front of DS1 etc...

Please try not to do this to yourself. ?My boys absolutely adore each other and love each other so much. ?They are best friends and I am actually closer to DS1 now than I have ever been.

Try to remind yourself what you are giving your first child not what you are taking away. ?You are giving them a sibling, some one to love and grow with, someone to have a special bond you and DH could never give them alone, and a new perspective on life.

DS1 was a little cold to me for a while but nothing like what I put myself through. ?

You are blessed to have both your children and it will be hard at first to put the needs of a child you don't know equal with one you already cherish, but you can do it and we all do. ?Just take an easy on yourself and find some special time with your daughter when you can!!

Source: http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/72690001.aspx

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